Tuesday, March 15, 2011

痛了,就会放手


这世界上是有什么事是放不下的吗?对执著的人来说,他会告诉你他很痛苦,他放不下那个人,放不下那件事,但是你叫他放下,他没有办法。

烦恼就像我们手上注满水的桶子,你为什么要一直提着它?你提起太久,时间太长,酸痛越长。放下,痛的记忆还在,但是会慢慢复原。

这世界上真的是没有事
放不下的,累了,痛了,就会放手。

心灵匮乏的人看到的是没有,觉得没有前景可言,没有后路可退。一定要等他改变贫穷的观念,他才会看到不同的选择。

是什么人看到有,是心中富有的人,看到很多的有。放下就是轻松自在。

同样的,执着的人,他没有看到放下。唯有经过万般折磨、疼痛到无法止痛,才会放下。

32 comments:

  1. 可能,是伤得还不够痛吧。
    伤够了,就会放手的了。

    学会放手,能够得到更多的道理,不是很多人可以做到的。

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  2. 放手,其實要說難不難,要說容易不容易~
    唉~~
    等著時間吧,也許時間久了,你就會看開,放手了。。。
    祝福你~~

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  3. 就是那種痛到谷底再反彈重生..
    有捨才有得..

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  4. 很认同你的说法。
    人生短短几十年,
    要选择快乐啊!

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  5. 唔…放下,談何容易。。。

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  6. 执着只会伤得更深,放下也是一门很深的学问。。

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  7. tamiya,

    一步一步来,学不会的慢慢学,终有一天会学到功课的。

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  8. thomas,

    谢谢你的关心,我已经看开很多,没什么的了!

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  9. 路人,

    有舍就有得,不舍就不得!

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  10. SK,

    正所谓未见棺材不流泪!呵呵呵~~~

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  11. 异乡游子,

    哦,真的吗?我们同是天涯沦落人啊!:)

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  12. Ashley,

    做人乐观积极,那就会很容易看到快乐了!:)

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  13. 動 Orson,

    那是知易行难,只要换个心态,就能轻松自在了。

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  14. BB,

    这世界上真的是没有事是放不下的,执着的时间一旦过去,自然会放手了。

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